Stil. Vudere. Måske rettelser? Den er kopiret, så den står i mit indlæg

3. Chalk and cheese
A. What makes who you are?
What influences your personality?
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What makes me who I am? That is one question you can ask yourself. I don’t think genes or the media has anything in common, to show who you are. The DNA is the code for how you look, maybe you got a big nose and small ears, but genes do not have an effect on your behaviour. My personality can have something to do with my genes, and also the media, for example: If you are a boy, and you got a small penis, and you get teased in school, then it can break your self-confidence. And why do you have a small penis? That is because it is in your genes. The media can tell a lot of shit in the newspaper or gossip papers, and if they are lying about you, then will everyone be able to read it, that will hit you where it hurts.

Family, friends and surroundings makes me to who I am. If I didn’t live in Denmark, maybe I would have been a gangster, pusher or a beggar. Family is the biggest part of all the other subjects, which makes you who you are. You need a family, so you have someone, who can tell you what’s right and wrong and what are left and right. You need a family to support you in all decisions you take. If you grow up with a family in a low financial position, and they let you run around in the middle of the night, and they don’t tell you what are wrong and right. Then you destroy the child completely, because he or she doesn’t have a family to feed him the love he or she needs, or they didn’t respect or helped him. So I think family is the most important of all subjects that makes you who you are.
Surroundings are a very dangerous subject, because it can change a person in no time, if he/she got the right things to make a boring night, to a wild night. There are a difference between Friends and Surroundings; you can not trust a stranger even though it is someone you just met at a party, because you don’t know their backgrounds. You can trust your friends, because you know who they are, and they are there to support you if you need it. Surroundings are just some people you have met through other people, and you can not trust to them, because suddenly they will might put something in your drink, and “bang” you will go crazy, and they can get control over you. That is why I think surroundings are a very dangerous subject, but it can also be positive, you can also meet people, you will hang out with for the rest of your life.

I have an example with a girl; we went to the same school, same class. It was in the middle of 8th grade, she began to act strange, like she was uncomfortable with everything and everyone. I thought it could be some problems back home, but then I could not understand, why she began to dress different, it was sexy close, not black close or stuff like that, just sexy, and very short close.
I saw her flirting around with some guys, who were kicked out of schools and stuff like that.
She began to truant, and took down town to her friends in stead. One time she came to school, and she got a lot of attention because her eyes were completely red, and her hair was messed up. She looked like shit. But we figured that she was on drugs, and she got kicked out of the school. I did wonder why that quiet girl could destroy her own life, in no time. She did not talk much in the classroom, and she was just doing her homework everyday, and suddenly she changed from a normally quiet girl to a crack abuser. Today I think it was because she was not very strong, and she have might be afraid, to say no to the people she did not know, I think she was happy when she was together with them, because she got attention and complements. That is what can happen to a person, if she/he begins to hang out with people she/he does not really know.

I will consider friends and family close, because you can consider a very good friend as a part of the family. It is very important to me to have friends, because they can give me, what my parents cannot give. It’s like they are my second family, if you know what I mean, it is like I have a primary and a secondary family. My primary family raised me, taught me manners, and fed me with love. My second family gives me experience, friendship and thousand of other things. It is a wonderful thing to have both families, because what the primary family cannot give me, the second family can, and reverse.
I think it is important to have the right friends, or you can end up like the girl I told you about.
Right friends are someone you can trust and have a good social network with. Friends give you the possibility to enlarge yourself on many different ways.

Another subject I will remind you about is experience. I do not think experience have anything to do with who you are. Experience could be on a holiday, but it cannot be useful. But Friends and experience can be used together, and create an experience you and your friends never will forget. You can have memories from your childhood, and some flashbacks, but it cannot change or make a difference in the way you are.
Family, Friends and surroundings is the most important thing in life.